Hallelujah! 🙌 Praise the Lord. 🙏🏻 It’s hard to believe but today is the 15th anniversary of my double lung and liver transplant at Methodist Hospital in Houston, Texas. My life-saving transplant was on April 19, 2011. 🫁
It’s been an amazing journey and I’m so happy to have lived an extra 15 “bonus” years. What a blessing to receive the Gift of Life. 💚 I’m so thankful and grateful to still be alive after so many years. I’ll never forget my pre-transplant doctor telling me I might make it 5 years if I’m lucky. The statistics show that 50% of lung transplant recipients make it 5 years. The statistics also show that only 20% of lung transplant recipients make it 10 years. I’ve yet to find any statistics on 15 years but I know it’s a smaller percentage.
I give all the thanks and glory to God for my miracle life saving transplant and continued good health. A lot of times I ask “Why have I been so blessed?” I don’t feel so special but I know I am special in God’s eyes. My donor is always in my thoughts and I’m so grateful to him and his family that he was willing to be an organ donor. I don’t think I’ll ever fully comprehend what happened to me and I know I write that every year but my transplant experience still feels so surreal even after all of these years. That’s the best way to describe it. It’s hard to still process after 15 years that those are his organs keeping me alive; no longer my God given organs. It can be a lot to process and think about at times.
I had a wonderful past year but I was in the hospital again for an intestinal blockage due to cystic fibrosis. It was my third blockage in just a little over 1 1/2 years . I was in the hospital from January 7th till the 12th. It was a lot of pain but not as bad as the blockage last year which landed me in ICU. I became septic last year. Thankfully I was able to avoid surgery but it’s always scary and painful when a blockage happens.
The highlight of the past year was that I just got back from a weeklong cruise to the Caribbean April 5-12. 🛳️ My parents and life partner Sharon joined me on the Carnival Dream ship. My former doctor, Dr. Allen, and family friend Evelyn also joined us. We had a great time. The food and was wonderful. I know I definitely gained weight! Lol 😂 The ship docked at Jamaica, Grand Cayman Island and Cozumel. We took a bus tour excursion at Jamaica and again at Grand Cayman but went to the beach at Cozumel. It was a private beach and the excursion included a lunch buffet. The beach sand was so white and the water was so clear. It was fun to get in the water and relive memories of when I visited a Cozumel beach back in 1998. I originally planned to swim with the stingrays in Grand Cayman but my new doctor didn’t think it was a good idea. I’ve always tried to live smart and adhere to the philosophy of “it’s better to be safe than sorry” especially when you are on a distant island far out in the Caribbean. 🏝️
Speaking of my new doctor, his name is Dr. Kumar. He joined the transplant team at the beginning of this year and became the new lung transplant director replacing Dr. Grazia. My former doctor, Dr. Todd Grazia, left the hospital after being my doctor for 8 years. He was a great doctor with the absolute best bed side manner. He had Sharon and me laughing so hard sometimes at some of his personal stories. I’m going to miss him and it’s left a hole and void in my heart. My transplant coordinator April also left during the winter to become a full-time CF nurse. She had been my lung transplant coordinator for approximately 5 years. It’s been tough because both Dr. Grazia and April were so instrumental in my care for many years. It always helped my peace of mind being under their care.
I’m sure the level of care at Baylor Hospital will continue to be excellent. Hopefully I’ll have a good connection with my new doctor and nurse over time.
I’ve overcome so much my whole life. So many medical challenges and obstacles. I almost didn’t survive as an infant without emergency surgery (meconium ileus) and my parents were told I would not survive past age 6 or 7. The prognosis for cystic fibrosis patients in the 1960’s and 70’s was very grim. It’s not like it is today where the outlook is very promising and positive due to gene therapy. My parents though were by my side every step of the way and have continued to be by my side to this day. I would not be here today without all their help. We are a great team and they were very involved and hands-on in my care well before my need of a transplant in 2010. Cystic fibrosis is a horrible disease which required daily care every single day of my life for 42 years pre-transplant. Every single day required aerosol nebulizer treatments and chest percussion therapy (CPT) multiple times each day administered by my parents. I’ve come so far from those days of taking treatments. God really did bless me with the best parents ever. I’m the luckiest man on the face of the Earth. I recently told my therapist that if God asked me (hypothetically speaking) if I wanted to relive my life CF-free but with different parents that I’d turn that offer down. I wouldn’t trade my parents for anything. I love them so much and it saddens me to know we are getting to the end of our journey together on Earth as we get older. Only God knows the future but Father Time seems to move ahead quicker with each passing year. We just have to make the most of each day together and continue to live life to the fullest. ❤️
God also really blessed me with the best partner I could ever hope for who is so intelligent, beautiful, thoughtful and caring. Sharon has been steadfast by my side since 2017 and has never wavered. She is my best friend and soulmate. We really do have a special bond together. I never thought or imagined it would be possible to love again after Jeannine passed away but God knew my pain and grief. I firmly believe God brought us both together even though we were 1000 miles apart when we met. I don’t know where I’d be without my parents and Sharon. I’d probably be in a deep, dark depression and perhaps not even here any longer if I was all alone. They continue to give me daily support, love and encouragement. Sharon always has a positive affirmation and tells me “25 years or more together”. That’s what I need to hear to keep fighting and going sometimes. Hope for the future and our life together. 💕
In conclusion, God is good and I’ve been blessed beyond measure. I have had many medical miracles throughout my life and God continues to save me. I don’t know or understand why I’ve been given this long life and saved many times when all my dear CF camp friends have passed but someday it will all be revealed. I just have to continue to have hope and faith. ✝️
Thank you for reading my blog today and thanks to everyone who has loved, prayed and supported me throughout the years. It deeply touches my heart and I greatly appreciate it. Please pray that I will get to celebrate a sixteenth anniversary next year. 🙏🏻
Take care and God bless.
Gary









































































































































































































































































































































































